If you’re dating, you’re most likely trying to find someone you really like who will make a good life partner. It’s easy to ignore little things that happen, but it’s not smart to ignore them. We all have our faults, but some faults are too big to let go. Here are a few sure signs he is not the right man for you.
1. He can’t accept the fact that you have a past
Every person has a past. If your boyfriend is upset about the fact that you’ve had other boyfriends, he might not be the right guy for you. The last thing you want is to feel guilty about the fact that you had a life before him. Your past shouldn’t be something that your boyfriend questions you about or uses against you. If he does, it’s time to kick him to the curb.
2. He’s selfish in bed
If the man you’re dating is selfish in bed, it’s something you need to deal with right away. He should be just as concerned about your pleasure as he is about his own. If you let him get away with being selfish, nothing will easily change.
3. He gets mad when you show emotion
It’s understood that men don’t like it when women cry. It makes them uncomfortable and they don’t know how to make women feel better. That’s nothing compared to certain men who actually get angry when a woman cries or gets upset. If your boyfriend gets mad at you for being anything other than happy, you are not dating the right man. We all have feelings and emotions that we need to freely express. If you stay with a man like this for too long, you may begin to hold your emotions in and that’s not good for you.
4. He’s vulgar and crude
Some people say that being vulgar in public is unacceptable, but it’s also unacceptable in private. If your boyfriend is rude and inappropriate with you in private, this is cause for concern, especially if you’ve expressed your concerns and he still won’t stop. If he can control himself out in public, he can do so when he’s with you in private as well. If he chooses to not control himself, you may want to cut your losses and get out of the relationship. He should want to be his best self around you.
Dating is the period in a relationship when you determine whether someone is worth your time or not. No one is perfect, but if someone acts in a way that isn’t making you happy, it’s a good idea to get out of the relationship.