Don’t get overly excited for plans that are a month in advance

Anything can happen in a month, or in a week, or even in a day. Don’t create a perfect date in your head that is still quite some time away. I have noticed guys tend to take things day by day. It’s sometimes impossible to even make plans that are a couple of weeks in advance with some guys. Just don’t take things personally if plans don’t work out and reschedule.


Stop thinking how your guy would/should respond

By creating an imaginary dialogue inside your head, you could be unintentionally setting yourself up for a disappointment. Don’t expect to have a particular response from your partner about a question or an issue that you want to bring up because even if all signs point to one answer you never actually know what goes on in another person’s head.