The first thing we need to clear is the reason behind the guy’s words. There can be two or more reasons for that but the 3 most possible scenarios are:
- S*x! He wants to get in bed with you and the one thing guys know very well about the opposite sex is that they can be emotionally trapped and guys will certainly take advantage of you when they know the whole act could end is sex. For guys sex is just sex, but for the opposite gender its more than that, it’s a mixture of love and feelings.
- The second is the circumstance that forces him into saying that. He may like the girl but is still confused about his decision and thinks it’s the only thing the girl wants to hear.
- The third one, of course, he may REALLY love you.
Now, to get a better understanding if your guy really is obsessed about you and has fallen for you, there are 10 couple of things that can help you get the answer as was said earlier, and those are:
1: He will just say the Magical Words!
When he says he loves you without you asking him or putting him under any sort of pressure. This means he’s saying that because he really wants to show his true feelings to you.
2: Does he really mean it? You can Judge!
You know the guy inside out. You can judge whether he’s really serious and into it when he says that. He’d say it without wanting anything in return (like sex, etc.) and if the only reason behind his words is his deep rooted love for you, then his words have substance.