I’m a 25-year-old virgin and, while I’m not waiting for marriage, I am waiting for the right guy. The guy that won’t pressure me to slept with him because it’s the 3rd date or break up with me after 3 months because I’m not ready. And yes, both of those situations have happened, on more than one occasion. As I get older, it seems more impossible to find a guy that will wait for me.

I want someone to respect me and make me feel safe enough to want to share that with him, because if a guy can treat me like crap after a nice evening where I cooked dinner and he didn’t get any, then imagine how much worse I would have felt had I given in and slept with him.

So, I guess my questions are: are there guys out there that will wait and respect me, how long is too long for him to wait, and what do guys think about a girl making them hold out for s*x?

I have male friends that respect me for waiting but, guys I date , that’s something else.

What do you think the 25-year-old virgin should do? Let her know in the comments below: