Hi, I am a serving military personnel in Nigeria. I am a young man in my early 30s, married and devoted both to my family and duties. My major problem is that almost everyone, especially those people that are superior to me at work, HATE ME.

I have not for once been found unproductive or lazy; still, nobody likes me. On several occasions, I have been deprived of privileges while others were granted the same or even more (even my juniors).

What I have noticed is that I am facing all this because I desist from cheating and illegal activities and am prone to intimidation. I am confused because deep inside, I justify everything I do.

I wish somebody could counsel me because this is affecting me psychologically already. Thank you!