It’s quiet frustrating when you’re giving your all to a relationship and the guy is not encouraging in ways that he should, such as, complimenting you when required, being encouraging, thoughtful etc… Most times the lack of all this things occurs when a guy is fed up with the relationship and wants to break up but doesn’t know how to or wants to keep you as the side chick.
Carefully stated below are ways to detect this and honestly be the first one to walk away with your head held high.
1. HE STOPS MAKING TIME FOR YOU
Simply put he’s fed up with you and does not want to spend time bonding with you. The general excuse is he his working late, or he’s in a meeting and would be delayed for a long while, without a call back.
2. YOU STOP GETTING INVITED TO HANG OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS
Remember when you first met? How he loved to introduce you to his friends and family? Well that would stop. He will start hanging out with his friends more, especially the ones you don’t like, and often times, they side with their “buddy” when the breakup occurs most especially if they never liked your company at all.
3. LESS INTIMATE CONVOS
Notice that your convos become less flirty and much less intimate. You talk about football matches and what not. This is all in a bid to disconnect from you and become less emotional when the breakup occurs.
4. HE IS LESS TOUCHY
Let’s create a little scenario here; You’re watching a movie together on the same couch and the gap between you both can easily occupy another person. You get the message right? A guy who is totally into you would pull you close, closing the yawning gap in between the both of you. Body language tells a lot.
5. YOU STOP RECEIVING RANDOM TEXTS
Those text messages that you both share that gets you laughing stops. Most guys who are in love send text messages about any and everything on impluse. When he feels there’s really no need to send you a morning or night text or to check-in, then the relationship is about to end.
6. ALL PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) ENDS
He is about to break up with you, he definitely doesn’t want any strings of emotion attached. All the lovey dovey display of affect would end in private and public.
Now that you’ve been made aware of all this, gear up and have that face to face convo with him or just be the first one to do the breaking up.