• What is your favorite memory of dating me?
  • What is your favorite sexual memory of us?
  • What food reminds you of me?
  • When was the last time you thought about me in a positive way?
  • What is your favorite thing that I do for you?
  • What movie reminds you of us?
  • Which of your parents are you most like?
  • Which of our kids are most like you? (or if you aren’t parents yet: Do you ever picture having kids?)
  • What’s my best physical feature?
  • What do you like most that I do in bed?
  • What’s your favorite time of day to be intimate?
  • Do you like kissing or hugging more?
  • When did you know you wanted to be monogamous with me?
  • Do you ever get jealous if you see me talking to other attractive people?
  • Do you ever dream about me?
  • What do you think we need to work on the most in our relationship?
  • If you got sick, do you think I would be there to care for you?
  • Do you believe that I love you?
  • When did you know you wanted to kiss me?
  • What’s your favorite non-sex activity that we do together?
  • As a child, did you trust both of your parents?
  • What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?
  • What is your favorite sexual fantasy?
  • What is your favorite sexual position?
  • Do you ever think about me sexually during the day?
  • What is something I could do to make you trust me even more?
  • When do you feel the most protected and taken care of?
  • What can I do to make sure you feel safe with me?
  • When we hang out with friends, do I make you feel like you’re still my priority?
  • When we are with my family, do I make you feel like you’re still my priority?
  • Do you have any deal-breakers, things that would make you seriously reconsider our relationship?
  • What was the very first thing you thought about me?
  • When did you first think I was attractive?
  • How long do you think people should wait before having kids?
  • What did you learn about marriage from your parents?
  • What did you learn about physical affection from your parents?
  • What is your favorite book?
  • What is your favorite song?
  • What was your first favorite movie, as a child?
  • What do you want to do when you retire?
  • Do you ever picture having grandchildren?
  • What’s another career that you think you would love?
  • What’s your favorite physical feature of your own?
  • Who was your favorite teacher when you were a child?
  • What’s your favorite memory with your mom?
  • What’s your favorite memory with your dad?
  • Which significant other before me had the biggest impact on you?
  • What did you think after your first sexual experience?
  • Did you like high school or college better?
  • Where have you always wanted to travel?