1. Always Be Yourself

You don’t want to pretend you’re something that you’re not, and then when you actually interact with her in person, she feels as though she is talking to a different person. And she starts to wonder about your authenticity.

2.  DO NOT Overdo It

When you are messaging someone don’t over dose on the emojis and abbreviations. Remember you are not 12 years old. Leave all of that for the children.

3.  DO Avoid Sarcasm

Keep in mind that you are talking through words on a phone. People cannot see your facial expressions through a text, therefore they will not be able to tell if you are joking or not, and even if you are joking, they can never be very sure if they can’t read your face.

4. DO NOT Read Too Much Into It

Keep in mind at the end of the day, it is not real life. It’s just a text message don’t get worked up if someone doesn’t respond right away, they might have things that they are doing. Just be patient.


Nothing is cute about someone who can’t spell correctly.