Falling in love is simple. But rising in it is definitely not a cakewalk! A wrong partner can ruin the relationship. He considers you a doll – well, literally! He takes you for granted and plays with your feelings. Don’t let him become the biggest mistake of your life. Some time spent together can tell you what’s there in store for you in the relationship. If what’s happening is not what you imagined, take it as a warning sign and act upon it. Here are a few pointers that can save you from going through hell…
Bad man, bed man!
Your partner meets you only or mainly to have a hot session in bed. It’s time you realised he is exploiting you. Agreed, sexual connection between couples is very important. It certainly intensifies your bond. But if that becomes the sole reason for your rendezvous, be assured there’s something amiss. There are other significant things to a relationship and you must hook up in more ways than just sexually. So, the sooner you get your sex-obsessed boyfriend to realise your worth, the better.
Honey, give me money!
Are you the one always lending money to your boyfriend? Does he always end up making an excuse for being unable to pay you back? Do you often find him demanding expensive gifts from you? Does he always tend to forget his wallet at home when you both are eating out or going for movies or shopping? A ‘yes’ to all these questions and you should know you are being fooled! It’s clear that he is using you for his financial needs. Stop your ‘charitable acts’ and you’re likely to witness his true colours soon.
Fun and food!
It’s important for a couple to be acquainted with each other’s likes, dislikes, friends and families. They need to explore each other as individuals and share a comfortable bond – both physically as well as emotionally. But it’s different here. Even after years of courtship, your boyfriend still limits your relationship to just going out on fun dates. He is using you just to have a gala time. He may possibly turn his back on you if you seek commitment. You are hanging out with the wrong guy.
Wait and watch!
You crave spending quality time with your guy, but he seems to be busy always. You long to have romantic chats with him, but he never has time for it. He makes you wait for days before finally agreeing to go on a date. Well, he is definitely taking you for granted. He thinks only about his needs. His requirements. Only when he needs company does he come to you. When you pine for his attention and time, he keeps you waiting and closes his eyes to you. Stop him right there.
Next is your friend!
Your boyfriend takes more interest in your friend than in you. He keeps asking about her. Urges you to bring her along the next time you both plan a date. Asks for her phone number. These are clear signs of him being a cheater. He is only using you to start a relationship with your friend. You need to take a stand immediately. Call off your so-called relationship with that so-called lover. Also, warn your friend about this man’s indecorous intentions.