You’re doing it. Congrats. You’re a man, having sex, and it feels awesome. So awesome that you can’t hold it in anymore — you climax. Boom! Everything is perfect. So perfect that you roll over and fall into a deep sleep, where you dream of puppy dogs and sports teams. Good job!

Next to you, in bed, is your girlfriend. She’s wondering where her orgasm is. Sound familiar?

Secret-sharing app Whisper collected 17 pissed-off women who are wondering where their orgasms keep going. So just in case you thought it was totally chill that you weren’t taking some time to give her the attention she deserves, this will prove otherwise.

1.THE DISAPPOINTED ONE

2. THE SNEAKY MASTURBATOR

3. THE TWO-YEAR ANNIVERSARY

4. THE MARINE BIOLOGIST

5. THE ORAL EGOTIST

6. THE VICIOUS CYCLE

7. THE MISSING CONNECTION

8. THE FUTURE CHEATER

9. THE UPSET ARTIST

10. THE PUNISHER

11. THE SELFISH BOYFRIEND

12. THE ONE WISHING FOR AN ORGASM

13. THE LOVE VS. SEX DEBATE

14. THE ROLLOVER MAN

15. THE EX-GOOD LOVER

16. THE ONE WHO SHOULD TAKE CHARGE