Think your boyfriend might be cheating? First of all, don’t get all paranoid for no good reason. Obsessively checking his phone and Facebook profile are signs of a crazy girlfriend, not a cheating boyfriend. But what if your gut’s telling you he’s being unfaithful? If three or more of the following are true, there’s a good chance he’s a cheater.
1. He Suddenly Seems More Distant
3. He’s Getting All Soviet Union on You
If he’s being extra secretive about stuff – like by changing his online passwords, or flipping out when you try to look over his shoulder – and he’s never acted that way before, he’s probably hiding something.
4. He Changes His Style
5. He Makes Up Lame Excuses for Not Hanging Out with You
6. He Cheated on his Last Girlfriend
The saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” isn’t necessarily true, but if he’s been disrespectful to girls in the past, there’s no reason why he wouldn’t disrespect you, too.
7. He Told You He Wants to See Other People
If he says this phrase to you, then it’s guaranteed that he’s got an “other person” in mind. Don’t try to work out some friends-with-benefits deal with him. If you want an exclusive relationship, then you shouldn’t settle for anything less.